Move codec_privates onto DiscTitle, eliminate duplicate methods

Design fix: codec_privates are now a field on DiscTitle, not a separate
parameter passed through the pipeline. This eliminates the root cause of
the network codec_private bug (forgot to pass the separate param).

API changes:
- output() takes (url, &DiscTitle) — no separate codec_privates param
- MkvOutputStream::create, M2tsOutputStream::create, NetworkOutputStream::connect
  all read codec_privates from title.codec_privates
- M2tsMeta::from_title() takes only &DiscTitle — reads privates from title
- Deleted from_title_with_privates (was the wrong-name duplicate)
- Merged read_header + read_header_from_stream into one read_header(impl Read)
- Deleted finish(self) from TsMuxer, keep only finish(&mut self)

Rule: ONE public method per action. No _with_X, _from_Y, _ref variants.

src/mux/tsmux.rs

@@ -139,11 +139,7 @@ impl<W: Write> TsMuxer<W> {
         Ok(())
     }
 
-    pub fn finish(mut self) -> io::Result<()> {
-        self.writer.flush()
-    }
-
-    pub fn finish_ref(&mut self) -> io::Result<()> {
+    pub fn finish(&mut self) -> io::Result<()> {
         self.writer.flush()
     }
 }